Real Social Skills Are Diminishing
One of the biggest reasons why social networks are causing loneliness in teens is because real social skills are going out the window. Teens today are not equipped with learning how to make new friends due to the digital age of social networks.
There is also the issue of maintaining the friendships, which often times is just done through social networks as opposed to hanging out. The lack of real personal interaction with these friends is leading to feelings of isolation.
Being Ignored is Now Amplified
Another part of social networks is the ability to reply to messages, texts, and other forms of online communication with a blink of an eye. This ability to instantly communicate and talk back is leading to teens knowing pretty quickly when they are being ignored, especially since Messenger allows you to see if your message has been read or not. The teens feel insulted, lonely, depressed, and even anxious when they realize they are being given essentially the “silent treatment” by a so-called friend online.
Study Finds Mental Health Connection
While we are still trying to figure out the whole impact of social networks on teens, a study has come out showing some alarming information. The University of Houston released results of a study it did, which showed how long and how often people spent on social media affected their mental health. This was a study on Facebook and it showed that people compare themselves with others. This social comparison creates feelings of envy, loneliness, and depression. The feelings of loneliness often come from people posting only happy and positive things in life, such as parties and hanging out with friends or going on vacation.
Social Media Brings Negative Thoughts
While not all of social media has a negative vibe, there are many websites devoted to feelings of depression, loneliness, and isolation. Tumblr for example, is a place where teens can go to reinforce negative thoughts and feelings. These social media platforms tend to push teens into only interacting with like-minded people. The interactions of only like-minded people can significantly impact feeling lonely and isolated because teens are not engaging with different viewpoints or different thoughts or feelings. Teens that are not looking to enhance their world view will find themselves feeling isolated like no one hears them or can help them with their problems.