I am not making a decision as of yet, but that info about xbox has already been debunked... it doesn't have to be connected every 24 hours.... and they have stated that they will make their games shareable up to ten times. (this is what I have heard.)
Those points you've listed have literally come from those reddit posts to instill the big brother notion.
And IF this news is true, you don't think all of the negative press and talk like this won't make XBox make the changes needed??? If they don't, then they'd need to fall on their faces.